Sunday, June 27, 2010

Busy, busy week

What a crazy busy week! Nick's sister K and her kids came in on Monday, and her husband joined them on Friday. We let them get settled in Monday night, but Tuesday we went to visit. Her little boy (we'll call him Mark) turned one earlier this month, and he's into everything! He and Daisy really liked each other, although we really had to watch him to make sure he wasn't too rough with her. Morgan and K's daughter (we'll call her Kaylee) spent the night with Nick and K's other sister R and her husband C.

Wednesday K had plans to take R, C, Morgan, Kaylee, and Mark to a local theme park, and she invited me and Daisy to go too. She paid for everyone's tickets as well as pretty much everything else that day, and at the end of the day she even purchased season passes for me and Morgan so that we can go for the rest of the year! It was an incredibly generous gesture, and I'm really excited about it. Nick and I visited this theme park on our honeymoon, and we bought season passes every year for a number of years. The last few years it's not been in the budget, so this was a special gift for us. Daisy is still young enough to get in free, so all we need to do is get Nick a pass now. Even better, R has a connection to get us a one day pass for free, and that can be put toward Nick's season pass and cut the price by more than half. Morgan spent that night with my in-laws, which is where K and her kids were staying.

Thursday Nick was off, so we got to spend the day together. We went and got my hair cut and colored, then went to have lunch with R and C. K had taken Morgan, Kaylee, and Mark to the family lake cabin with Nick's grandparents, and Morgan got a pretty bad sunburn. She and I are both very fair skinned, and I'm pretty religious about making sure she has on sunscreen at the lake. Unfortunately they weren't as careful about making sure she was covered, and it really upset me to see her in so much pain. We all went to R and C's house to hang out for a while, and when K left to go back to her parents' house with Kaylee and Mark, she took Morgan with her to spend the night again. But about 11:00 we got a call to come pick her up. She just felt so bad from the sunburn and was really missing us, so she slept at home that night.

Friday was K's birthday. We all had dinner together after Nick got home from work, then K had to run to the airport to pick up her husband. We all decided to go to a drive-in movie afterwards. It was a double feature, and we saw Toy Story 3 and The A-Team. Morgan stayed the night with my in-laws again.

Saturday was our 12th anniversary, and honestly we didn't do a whole lot for it. Money was an issue, but we also had Nick's cousin A's wedding that evening, so we just kind of relaxed and got in a long nap together. The wedding was beautiful although very hot and humid since it was held outside. But it was at a Civil War home that's listed on the historical registry, which was really neat, and I'd love to go back and do a photo shoot there. It was also A's parents' wedding anniversary, as well as Nick's great grandparents' anniversary, something we didn't know when we got married ourselves. Morgan was spending the night with our in-laws one last time, so Nick and I went and had dinner together. Daisy really didn't want to go to sleep when we got home, but eventually I got her down and Nick and I were able to spend some time loving each other.

You'd think that with all this time with Morgan away from home we'd have gotten to our weekly spanking, but honestly we were both so worn out by the end of every day that it was all we could do to make it to bed! Hopefully we'll be able to get to it this week.

K and her husband took Mark back to Texas with them today, although Kaylee ended up staying here with her dad's parents. Her dad is supposed to have her during the summer. Unfortunately he's not much of a father, and he didn't bother to make arrangements for that until today. In fact, he actually lives a couple of hours away and won't be coming to get her for another couple of days. K had already bought a plane ticket back home for Kaylee because she hadn't heard anything from her ex, so it was pretty emotional for her to have to say goodbye to Kaylee for the rest of the summer on such short notice.

Anyway, that's been my crazy week - how's yours been?

Monday, June 21, 2010

Miscellanea

Hi, everyone. I hope all the dads out there had a great Father's Day. We went out to eat at one of Nick's favorite restaurants for it today, which is a rare treat for us these days. Then we went to visit his grandparents and his dad and stepmom, then my parents. Daisy learned to wave yesterday and she was stealing hearts all around. :)

I got my weekly spanking last night. Nick pulled out a couple of implements he had really barely tried before. They were both from Cane-iac. The first he'd never really used because I've always been afraid of whippy implements. The second had seen little use because it was one of Cane-iac's old thinner paddles, and we have several of their thicker paddles he started using and kept going back to.
The whippy implement is a black delrin 5 strand cane and is still available from Cane-iac. The second is a stinger oak paddle. This one is a 1/4 inch thick and is no longer sold, but they do have a 1/2 inch thick version. Anyway, this spanking was not exactly a full blown punishment, but it was definitely more than maintenance. Some of our friends came over last night while Nick was at his buddy's house, and they were still there when he got back. I had been running errands and didn't have much time between the time I got home and the time our friends showed up, but I spent what time I had straightening up. Unfortunately the house started at such a point that I really didn't have time to get it to what he considers acceptable for company. It wasn't terribly messy, but I needed to sweep and load the dishwasher, and the kitchen table was kind of cluttered. One thing that he has asked of me since I started staying home was to make sure that the common areas stay pretty close to finished. He also had a few things to say about some of the things left in my car, an ongoing pet peeve of his.

Once I had the girls in bed he had me follow him upstairs and lay on the bed on my stomach. He lectured me a bit about the things he was upset about, then gave me the spanking. He let me keep my jeans on, but both implements were definitely still felt. He started out with the paddle, then moved to the cane, giving me 50 licks with each. I managed to stay still for the whole thing, something I was rather proud of. Then he told me to take off my pants and panties. I found that rather alarming, but I obeyed, and it turned out that his intentions were more pleasant than another spanking. That was a huge relief, because I don't think I would have done as well staying put with my pants down, especially with the delrin cane. That thing is small but mean! Anyway, the rest of the evening was wonderful, and I so needed him to call me on the things I was slacking on.

In other news, Nick's sister, niece, and nephew will be flying in from Texas tomorrow, and her husband will join them Friday. They're coming in for Nick's first cousin's wedding this Saturday, and it will be wonderful to see them! Anyway, I'm off to bed. 'Night all!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Busy week!

Gosh it's been busy around here! Nick spent just about every night last week at my parents' house working on their car for them, and the kids and I went with him most of the time. We got some good swimming and visiting time in, and we discovered that Daisy LOVES the pool!

We also spent a little time over at his buddy D's house where Nick helped work on more cars and I visited with D's wife. She's also trying to break into photography, and she has the same camera I do, so we always have fun picking each other's brains for ideas. One neat thing that happened was that D was at work in his boss's office and noticed that his boss's screen saver was a slide show of his grandkids' pictures. When D looked a little closer he noticed my business name across the bottom of them! Yay! My business cards came in, and I've been spreading them around like crazy, so hopefully I'll be able to pick up a few more clients soon.

We finally got our garage door fixed, which is a relief. And the guy came today to do the weather stripping on our doors, which was the last thing that had to be done for the inspection on our new HVAC unit financing.

Morgan found a baby bird today, and she's trying to nurse it along. It actually fell out of its nest twice, and the mama bird won't have anything to do with it, so I gave Morgan permission to do her best with it. It likely won't make it, which will be a hurdle I know, but I just couldn't tell her no. It was such an ugly little thing when she found it, but we went to Wal-Mart and bought some live bait, and it seems to have fluffed up and gained some strength, so who knows?



God has really provided for us this week with lots of side work for Nick. Not only did my parents give him some money for working on their car, but my brother and sister-in-law and Nick's sister and brother-in-law also had him do some. And today he was able to do some for a guy I went to school with!

Saturday we got to go out to eat with Nick's family and go up to the cabin. There are several June birthdays in the family, and they always have a birthday party for them up there. We had actually planned to skip the restaurant part and just go to the party at the cabin due to money, but Nick's grandparents decided to pay for our meal as a gift for our anniversary, so we got to go after all. This was Daisy's first visit to the cabin, and she was the star of the show. :) Sadly we won't get to spend our usual June vacation week there again this year. For years we've stayed up there for a few days around our anniversary because that's where we spent our honeymoon, but last year we were visiting his sister in Texas that week. This year we can't because Nick's cousin is getting married on our anniversary, so we have to be in town for the wedding, and a few days prior she'll be using the cabin for her bachelorette party. Unfortunately the next time that Nick can use his vacation time and the cabin will be available is in August, but maybe we can take a long weekend up there some time before then.

Speaking of our anniversary, it's in only 11 days - we'll be married for 12 years! It's been such a wonderful journey so far, and I can't wait to spend the next 12 years and beyond with my amazing husband!

Oh yeah, I got a spanking tonight! :) I have to admit, I was a little worried that since my brother found the blog Nick would feel too weird about it. And after we were too busy to get to it on Thursday, I got a little more worried! But tonight he made time for it, and it was just exactly what I needed! We got out the Inflatable Position Master I just reviewed, and Nick had me bend over it. He'd already had me get him the snake paddle and bamboo baton I also just reviewed, and he spanked HARD! He gave me 5 or 10 good whacks with each, then announced that the product review was over and we were going to get down to business. He started to take down my pants, but I managed to convince him to let me keep them up, and boy was I glad! The bamboo baton had some serious thud to it, which honestly kind of surprised me. After 20 or so with it he picked back up the snake paddle, and it felt like he was spanking me with everything he had. If he had been using something wood I would have had some serious bruises, but as it was leather it just left me very, very red. It's hard to describe, but it's like each swat just radiated out over my whole bottom, and it was only being over the position master that kept me in place. I'm not sure how many I got, but it was probably close to 100. The thing is, even though it really did hurt quite a bit, I think I could have kept going for quite a bit longer. The main reason I was glad we stopped when we did was because it was pretty loud as paddles go, and I was afraid we would wake the kids. Some time when at least Morgan is spending the night with my parents I'd like to try it again and see how long I can go.

When he was done it was my turn to take care of him, and I did that by spending some serious face time with a certain part of him that always appreciates the attention. :) Thank you so much, sweetheart, for loving me so perfectly!

Review: Snake Paddle(Wd)

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The final item up for review is the Snake Paddle(Wd) by Ruff Doggie. This leather paddle measures 14 inches from tip to tip and is 4 inches across at the widest part. It's just a bit over 1/4 inch thick. One thing I should mention about this paddle is that I had a hard time making myself stop sniffing it! It has that wonderful leather smell that makes so many of us swoon! Of course that was the last thing on my mind when Nick was using it on me! This paddle is stiff enough that it doesn't wrap, but it definitely has more give than wood. Nick was able to use it almost full force on me without worrying about injuring me, but that's not to imply that it didn't deliver a very hard spanking! I'm a big fan of this one, and I'm so glad we got to try it! I can definitely recommend it to anyone who likes leather implements, and I found the $32.48 price tag to be quite reasonable for the quality of the item.

Thank you as always to Adult Sex Toys!

Review: Fetish Fantasy Slap Happy Baton

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The next item up for review is the Fetish Fantasy Slap Happy Baton. Now I confess, when I pulled this toy out of the box, I thought it was going to be more bark than bite. And it can definitely be loud, but it packs an unexpected wallop! This baton is 23 inches in total length and features a piece of bamboo split down the middle and attached to a comfortably curved handle. It also has a wrist cord to keep it at hand should your spanker lose his grip. Bamboo is an incredibly hard material, and even over my jeans it had some serious thud to it. Nick gave this a definite thumbs up, and he was reluctant to put it down. The price on this is $15.02, which makes it a very affordable toy.

Thank you as always to
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Review: Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master

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The second item up for review is the Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master. Now this is a really neat product - similar to the Liberator Ramp I previously reviewed, but smaller and, at only $24.60, quite a bit more affordable. The base of the pillow measures 16 x 23 inches, and the inflated height is about 8 inches. The fact that it is inflatable makes it easy to store or just as easy to pack if you want to take it along on a getaway. It would inflate very quickly with a hand or foot pump, but I didn't have any trouble getting it fully inflated by mouth within a few minutes. It supports up to 300 pounds and features an easy grip handle on each side. The surface is flocked, so there's no sliding off, and I found that it holds in place very well when used with my Liberator Ramp.

This is one that we will definitely be pulling out frequently! Thank you as always to Adult Sex Toys!

Review: Crystal Balls Butterflys

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Hey guys! I have four product reviews to put up, then just a regular post. It's been crazy busy here, but in a good way!

The first item up for review is a lovely set of crystal ben-wa balls. These hand blown glass balls are 3.25 inches around, about the size of a shooter marble, and they have a pretty purple butterfly in the center of each. Butterflies are kind of a special symbol to me because Nick always says that I remind him of one. When I get in a bad place and kind of burrow into a cocoon so to speak, a good spanking always pulls me out of it and transforms me, thus the comparison. The purpose of ben-wa balls is to help strengthen the kegel muscles, something that not only helps your sex life, but also helps with things like childbirth and bladder control.

This set comes in a purple heart shaped tin with an easily removable label so that they can be stored discreetly. They are also available with a heart inside. I think they make a lovely addition to my toy drawer, and they would also make a great gift for a bachelorette party.

Thank you as always to Adult Sex Toys!

Tuesday, June 08, 2010

Review: Coochy Shave Cream - Pear Berry 16 oz

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I got my latest package from Adult Sex Toys today, and I'm going to jump right in and review the first product. It was a generous 16 ounce bottle of Coochy Shave Cream in the Pear Berry scent. First of all, let me say that I have a terrible tendency toward razor burn, especially on my thighs. On top of that, all that I have to work with right now is a very cheap disposable razor I picked up at the discount store. Normally I try to use Schick Quattro for Women simply because they treat my sensitive skin better, but money is pretty tight right now, so you do what you have to.

Anyway, I've heard good things about the Coochy Shave Creams, so I was excited to give it a try. The texture is more like hair conditioner than anything, and in fact the bottle states that it can be used for that too. I shaved legs, underarms, and bikini area, and I was very pleased with the results. So far I'm rash free! The pear berry scent is very nice and also very light. It's also available in Lavendar, Plumeria, Green Tea, and Fragrance Free. And just to get the full use of the product, I used it as a hair conditioner too and was very pleased there also. My hair is soft, untangled, and pleasantly scented.

I recommend this to anyone who razor burns easily. Thank you as always to Adult Sex Toys!

Monday, June 07, 2010

Well this is weird...

Okay, so tonight I got a text from my brother. It was asking if I knew that setting up a facebook account for my blog would send suggestions for that account to my facebook friends. Well, yes, I knew that, but I assumed he meant my photography blog. A few texts later it becomes clear that he means this blog. Awkward! Here's the thing - I do have a facebook account for this blog (or at least I did until tonight, when I promptly deleted it!), but I can't figure out where the cross reference was. There were no mutual friends (I definitely didn't friend it with my vanilla account), and there was even a whole different email address that I only used for that facebook account. And honestly I hadn't even checked that facebook account in ages. Either way, he found his way here.

And so...deep breath...I texted him back asking him to please not share it with anyone else and thanking him for his discretion. And my awesome brother, the one who got married just over 8 months ago himself, told me that he believes that if God had an opinion on it then He would have given it and that just so long as the focus was on Him and the satisfaction came from each other, what we do is our business. And that he would keep it to himself. :) Soooo...thank you!

I guess my biggest fear about having the blog found by someone in real life was that they wouldn't understand that this is something we do because I want it and would think that it's something Nick does to me instead of for me. What a tremendous relief that when it finally happened it was with someone who didn't jump to that conclusion. Love you, little brother!

Saturday, June 05, 2010

Back into the routine...

At least I think we are. I got my Thursday spanking this week, which was nice once it was over. :) Nick made me pick out an implement, which I hate having to do, and I came to the conclusion that we need to have us a big old bonfire. We have way too much wood! I finally settled on the Lady Elizabeth bath brush, an implement I remembered somewhat fondly, mistakenly it seems. It really, really HURT! It may have been because I didn't get a whole lot of warning before the spanking happened (okay, he might have mentioned it earlier in the evening, but I was sure he'd forget!). Or it way have just been because he used it really thoroughly! He gave me 70 swats I think, and I was still nicely pink today.

I wasn't specifically in trouble for anything, although Nick managed to think of a few things today that he plans to address in the near future. He's told me he would make me a list of some things I need to work on, which I do appreciate. I have to admit, it will be nice if this is us settling back into the routine.